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Giving Thanks for Our Generous Community

On Saturday, October 18, 2014, the Sexual Assault Crisis Center held its signature fundraiser Shall We Dance at the Radisson Paper Valley Hotel. This uplifting and entertaining event is meant to increase awareness about sexual assault while helping raise the important funds we need to uphold our mission. We would like to share the letter we received from Ms. Melinda Tempelis, Deputy District Attorney for Outagamie County who was in attendance that night.

My dear friends….

 I spent this morning catching up on my sexual assault referrals including a Child Advocacy Center video of a 3 year old sexual assault victim and can’t help but be overwhelmed by the impact of  the Sexual Assault Crisis Center’s  Shall We Dance fundraising event. 

Unfortunately, few people understand or appreciate the impact of sexual violence in our community or on its victims.  Day in and day out, we see the faces, hear the stories and work together and independently to do whatever we can to make a difference.  Some days, the work seems insurmountable and heartbreaking and other days we experience sweet justice.  Over the almost 12 years I have been here, I have always been amazed and impressed with the collaborative efforts our county has on so many issues – domestic violence, sexual violence, child maltreatment and others.

 The Shall We Dance event is incredible for so many reasons….but one of the most important is the community involvement and awareness.  People are talking about the issue of sexual violence, and the more people talk the more “comfortable” the topic becomes.  So hopefully, when a child comes forward, or a friend confides in another friend, or a co-worker learns her friend was a victim in a pending case, or a victim decides to make that scary, brave call to law enforcement or go to their medical provider, people will not just BELIEVE victims, but they will know the Sexual Assault Crisis Center is there to help.  From my standpoint, it also helps educate our jury pool.  Eventually, these people could be in our jury box making the decisions on our cases.  Whatever we can do to educate potential jurors helps us hold offenders accountable. 

 And then there is that heart stopping, Oh My God, you have to be kidding moment when you realize all your hard work and dedication raised $300,000 plus for the Center and our team to continue doing the work we do best!  UNREAL.  There are a million reasons why I love the SWD event, but I have to get to court and have another referral sitting on my desk.  But as I get back to it, my heart is a little lighter because I can see the faces of people we have helped this last year and know that as names come across my desk, you’ll be there to support the healing process.

 From my heart, a very big thank you for the countless, exhausting hours you put into this event!!  I am inspired and awed to work alongside such driven, compassionate friends and colleagues!  I couldn’t do my work without all of you! 

With admiration and thanks,
Mindy Tempelis
Deputy District Attorney
Outagamie County


Oh, Back to School!

Back to school, back to school. To prove to dad that I’m not a fool. Got my lunch packed up, my shoes tied tight. I hope I don’t get in a fight. Oh, back to school.

Ahh, the wisdom of Billy Madison. We can learn so much from his experiences when he returned to school as an adult. One of the most difficult adjustments for Billy going back to school was using appropriate language. As a former high school teacher myself, I can tell you that this is a very real challenge for students returning from summer break. In fact, our school administrators would often refer to their profane, crude, filter-less words as “summer language.”

When Prevention Educators from SACC present to middle and high school students, we always discuss sexual harassment. At first I was shocked to learn that some students really don’t know what is appropriate to say and what is actually “harassment.” Most students think that harassment is just bullying or name-calling. While those are definitely examples of harassment, there is much more to it! As Prevention Educators, we point out that sexual harassment also includes making comments about people’s physical appearance, bodies, or clothes; telling dirty jokes; making offensive hand or body gestures (booo Miley Cyrus); and even spreading rumors about someone.

As adults we need to work with youngsters to help them realize that their words and actions have real-life consequences. Schools will no longer tolerate sexual harassment. In fact, Title IX states that a school has a responsibility to respond promptly and effectively to harassment. If a school knows or reasonably should know about sexual harassment or sexual violence that creates a hostile environment, the school must take immediate action to eliminate the sexual harassment or sexual violence, prevent its recurrence, and address its effects.

Summer (especially after a long Wisconsin winter) is a great time for families and friends to enjoy time outdoors and let loose a little bit, but we always need to be conscientious of the language we use and the behaviors we model for our children. It is our responsibility as a community to send children back to school ready to learn and behave respectfully.

Counseling Available in Chilton

Counseling now available in Chilton.  The Sexual Assault Crisis Center has been offering CARECounseling, Advocacy, Resources, and Education in Outagamie and Calumet County for over 35 years.  This past fall, we realized that a satellite office in Calumet County was a necessity.  Many victims in Calumet County were required to travel the long distances to our main offices in Appleton, which became a hindrance for some – and an inconvenience for all.  Seeking to better meet the needs of those in this rural county, the Sexual Assault Crisis Center set out to raise funds to create an accessible office space in Chilton for sexual assault victims in Calumet County.  We are now happy to report that the office is actively up and running!  Summer hours are Thursdays from 10 am to 4 pm. Starting in September, 2014, fall hours will be on Monday afternoons or Friday mornings, dependent upon client needs. To arrange for an appointment at the Chilton office, simply call our main phone line at (920)733-8119.  We hope to better serve the needs to all sexual assault victims, both near and far, by inspiring change and instilling a sense of hope and healing.  Together, we can end sexual violence in the Fox Cities.

Thank you for your donations

Donations are what make our services happen; Thank You!

Sexual Assault Crisis Center was established in 1978 as a nonprofit IRS Code, 501(c)(3) which means donations to our agency are deductible to the full extent of the law as charitable contributions.

We’re able to provide our services in Outagamie and Calumet Counties due to the generosity and continued support of donors. We’ve been a United Way Fox Cities agency since our beginning and 33% of our support comes from this partnership. We also receive a small portion of our funding from United Way of New London.

Another way we raise monies is through grants which is another 33% of our income. Half of our grants come from your state tax dollars at work in your community (yup, we like taxes!) We’re state-funded through Sexual Assault Victim Services (SAVS) and Victims of Crime Act (VOCA); and periodically, we are awarded monies from Violence Against Women Act (VAWA). Our other grants come from the generosity of local granting foundations like the J. J. Keller Foundation, Roundy’s Foundation and Memorial Presbyterian. Church. We continually seek relationships with other funders to enhance our programs.

The last portion of our funding comes from the generosity of local individuals and corporations and through our annual fundraiser, “Shall We Dance?”. These relationships are very personal for us and we’re extremely grateful for the friendships that we’ve raised over the years.

All these fundraising parts make a whole and help us succeed in moving victims to survivors. Thank You! Together we can end sexual violence in the Fox Cities.

Mental Health Awareness Month

May is Mental Health Awareness Month. One in four people in our community live with a diagnosable, treatable mental health condition. When working with clients who have been sexually assaulted it is hard not to see the correlation between sexual assault and mental health. Nationally 10% of children are sexually abused and when you consider 88% of cases are unreported these numbers are staggering. People who suffer from some mental health conditions are at a greater risk of sexual assault and those who are sexually assaulted are at a greater risk of having mental health issues.

Those who experience sexual assault in their life time may experience:

• Depression
• Post-traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
• Dissociative Disorders
• Anxiety Disorders
• Eating Disorders
• Substance Abuse

Although, there may be those who fear the correlation due to the “stigma” attached to both mental health and sexual assault it is undeniable. Let’s embrace this knowledge and move forward knowing you can heal from both. Mental health can be cured and managed. Sexual assault victims can become survivors.

Take a moment this month to learn more about mental health; read a book, join a cause, make a donation, visit an organization, volunteer. We do not need to hide from mental health or sexual assault – be a part of the change!